The slang that Gen Z introduced into our culture is now beginning to feel nostalgic, especially as Gen Alpha shapes its own unique style of communication. Born after 2010, this "iPad generation" is fluent in a rapidly evolving language that often leaves parents baffled.
Terms and phrases that were once the epitome of "cool," like “lit” or “fire,” are now fading into digital obscurity. For parents, the generational divide seems wider than ever, as kids communicate through a mix of memes, viral trends, and gaming references. Many parents find themselves wondering, “Is this a curse, a dance move, or something from a video game I should recognize?”
Trying to engage in a conversation with a Gen Alpha kid can feel like stepping into a whirlwind of internet memes—fast-paced, unpredictable, and hard to keep up with. It’s not just about knowing the words; it’s about grasping the context and culture that give those words meaning.
Some parents express frustration, saying, “It feels like we’re not even speaking the same language anymore,” while others dismiss the new slang as overly simplistic or nonsensical. What once felt like straightforward communication now resembles decoding an inside joke. But by making an effort to understand the nuances of their world, parents can start bridging the communication gap.
Understanding Gen Alpha’s Language
Often described as “cringe-worthy” or even nonsensical, Gen Alpha’s slang can leave parents feeling out of the loop. Words and phrases shift quickly, and while they may seem silly at first glance, they carry significant meaning in their social circles. For example, “bad vibes” from Gen Z has now evolved into “negative energy.” While the meaning is similar, the change in phrasing often makes parents feel perpetually a step behind.
Take the word “sigma,” for instance. In Gen Alpha's world, calling someone "sigma" means they're confident or a leader. On the other hand, “Ohio” has become shorthand for something embarrassing or awkward. And if your kids mention having “rizz,” there’s no need to panic—it’s just slang for charm or charisma, and the term was even added to the dictionary in 2023.
The Need for Individuality
Every generation develops its own slang and trends as a way to stand apart from those that came before. It’s a natural part of forming identity, allowing teens to connect deeply with their peers while carving out a sense of individuality. This evolution often creates a cultural gap that can make communication with parents feel strained.
The world Gen Alpha is shaping—through slang, social media trends, and memes—is a reflection of their values, humor, worldview, and communication preferences. The teenage years are a time for developing individuality, social skills, and a unique identity.
Thanks to social media, Gen Alpha’s slang evolves faster than ever, but its purpose remains the same: to exclude adults from understanding. Kids often know they’re confusing their parents, and sometimes, they do it intentionally. It’s important to let them have their own language and space to express themselves. Instead of struggling to decode every new term, parents can simply ask what something means or reflect back what they think they understood. Showing curiosity and interest is the most important part of parenting.
From Confusion to Connection
While Gen Alpha’s style of communication may seem perplexing, it’s important to remember that this is a normal part of their developmental process. Creating and adopting their own language is how they explore independence and connect with their peers.
As parents, we have the privilege of watching our kids grow into their own unique selves. By embracing their distinct ways of expression, we can close the generational gap and foster stronger bonds. Instead of focusing on keeping up with every new trend, focus on staying tuned to their emotions. This openness and willingness to understand can turn moments of confusion into opportunities for deeper connection.